I've been into online shopping for about two years now. At times I buy something that catches my attention on a weekly basis. Whenever my package will arrive right in front of our house my mom will look at me with a strange expression, sometimes she'll get mad coz she think Im spending too much and that I need to stop and save my money for needs and not wants.
I admit I have a tendency to be an impulsive buyer. When Im depressed due to PMS or I need something to cheer me up I browse and click buy at once not even thinking twice if the dress will fit on me or I might not even look good on it. I believe its not healthy but I still do it anyway.
When Multiply closed down this year I was sad and disappointed coz I have a lot of things that i still want to buy and I can easily purchase without the hassle of paying over the counter or thru money transfers. I just have to do a few clicks on my internet banking and then wait for my package to arrive at my doorstep. My paypal account isnt verified yet, I dont know if I'll be thankful about that or not. At ebay I see a lot of clothes at international sellers and I cant make a purchase coz they only accept paypal as their mode of payment. So maybe if my paypal is working, I've been buying things every now and then. Haha!
Fortunately my boyfriend is so sweet and generous that he will buy me things that i want online thru his visa debit card. And now that his paypal is verified he's willing to use it for me but he said that he will be in control that not everything I ask will be granted. Haha! His recent purchase for me are two mac lippies Ive been dying to have. He bought it direct from US at ebay. (I'll make a review about it once they arrive) I am a lucky girlfriend. ❤❤❤
I bought 3 of these clothes online, the other two were gifts from my mom. Maxi dress, peplum top, crochet lace bodycon dresses and floral dress. I had all of these in one week.
Ive been crazy in love with this crochet lace bodycon dress since last year. It costs Php 750 to Php 1000 at other online sellers then I just browse it over ebay and found it at Php 550 Brand New without tag. :) Its the details that caught me since I'm fond of crochet and laces and embroidered work on clothes. I find it very catchy and unique.
For readers out there who havent tried online shopping yet. I'll give you the plus points as well as the disadvantages of online shopping. ^.^
The advantages of online shopping: (according to my experience)
1. Its easy, energy and time saving.
2. You can browse for similar items and compare prices.
3. You can buy the item that youve been saving for at a lower price. (Just be patient and continue browsing)
4. You can find rare and unique items even limited edition things that aren't usually sold inside shopping malls and bazaars.
5. Some sellers will give you freebies such as accessories or product samples.
6. You can purchase items that arent available in your country or in your place.
7. It is cost effective.
8. It can be a form of relaxation. Sometimes just browsing photos alleviate stress.
9. You can choose among the following mode of payments that are 100% safe and secured.
10. Free shipping and combined shipping are accepted depending on the product listings. You can also enjoy items that are on sale, bid for it or just watch the item until you're finally decided to purchase it.
11. The excitement it brings the moment you receive your package. Your extreme curiosity on what the actual product looks like! (In my case I am smiling with glee from the moment I laid hands on the parcel. It is like Im opening another gift on Christmas Day, yes that kind of feeling! Haha!) :)
12. You can adjust your criteria to narrow down your search for the item that you want. Eg. Free shipping, price ranges, location, etc..etc..
Disadvantages: (not all of the following had occurred to me.)
1. Pictures are sometimes deceiving. (Seeing the dress elegantly worn by a model conviced you that it is worth your penny and there you are looking totally washed out the moment your in front of the mirror wearing the same dress.)
2. At times product description is inaccurate and or somewhat exaggerated. (Blame it to marketing strategies.)
3. Wrong items sent or item didn't arrived at your doorstep after the long agony of waiting.
4. Yes you bought it at a cheaper rate but the quality is a big disappointment.
5. Delivery of the Items might take longer than expected. (Especially if its purchased overseas, customs checking takes a while)
6. Shipping fee is a bit expensive on my part.
7. Product might arrive with damages that may be due to improper handling during the shipment process or the seller didn't consider packing your items carefully.
8. You just end up buying a fake or conterfeit item. (Dont just rely on the picture that was copied at google, ask for actual shots of the item, including tags, serial number and so forth)
9. You trusted a bogus seller. (it is necessary to buy at secure online shopping sites. Take time to read the sellers recent feedbacks, whether positive or negative. You will eventually realize the seller's weaknesses and strengths and then its up to you to decide.)
10. Product is unavailable or its already sold out. (It is important to ask the seller the availability of the product because there are times that the quantity of the items arent updated, or the seller might also be selling outside)
I know in every actions that we do there will be equivalent effects whether it is positive or negative. For me, if you're happy on what youre doing just keep it up. Make sure it wont affect anything that you value and care the most. Discipline and Self control are needed once you've been hooked by the influence of online shopping. If you consider yourself a mature individual in the world of technology, then give this experience a try. You'll never know whats in store for you! Til next time!
Ciao! ❤❤❤💋